Talking about Little Nell from The Old Curiosity Shop, is
impossible without talking about her grandfather, for everything that happened
to poor Nell throughout the book must have been related to her grandfather, the
owner of an old curiosity shop in the suburb of London, with whom the orphan
Nell lived and the only one Nell ever loved. After Nell’s parents died, her
grandfather took over the responsibility to take care of her. I can see that he
loved Nell very much.
“Do I love thee, Nell,” said he (the grandfather). “Say, I do love thee, Nell, or no?”The child only answered by her caresses, and laid her head upon his breast.“Why dost thou sob,” said the grandfather pressing her closer to him. “Is it because thou know’st I love thee, and dost not like that I should seem to doubt it by my question? Well, well—then let us say I love thee dearly.”“Indeed, indeed you do,” replied the child with great earnestness.
Basically Nell’s grandfather was a good man, he was just an
old man who loved his grandchild, and tried to do something to give her a
bright future. Unfortunately, he had chosen the wrong way to gain it. Couldn’t
be patient to run his old curiosity shop business properly, he tried a faster
way to earn money, by gambling. I don’t know which one comes first in Nell’s
grandfather’s case, the gambling-addict or the greediness. However I can say
one thing about him, that in spite of his kind heart, Nell’s grandfather has an
obvious weakness, he could not resist the temptation of gambling though he knew
deep in his heart that what he did was wrong and that it would make Nell sad.
I was torn between love and hate with the old grandfather at
first, but reading along this book I’d rather think that he used Nell’s future
to be his reason for gambling. Perhaps at first he was really a good
grandfather who earnestly loved his grandchild, but having tried gambling as a
desperate way to enrich himself—in his obsession to fight the poverty, and to
make Nell become a lady or a woman who have a better place in society—he became
addicted to gambling. It seems from the book that Nell’s grandfather has never
won, but I think it’s hardly possible that a man should lose again and again. I
think he sometimes won, but he used the money he won to raise his bet, until he
lost all his money. And the same as a drunkard, an addicted gambling would do
anything to get money, robbing if he must!
Although I felt pity to Nell’s grandfather—and all other men
with same problem—I can’t sympathize with him. I do believe that men have their
weaknesses, and must try to improve all their lives, but deceiving himself that
he is doing it for the sake of the one he loves, well…it’s unacceptable for me.
So, old and pitying Nell’s grandfather is, I can never love him, especially
that he had been in many times disappointing Nell—and had been reminded by the
little child—but kept doing it and deceiving himself and his grandchild. No, I
can’t but blame him for all the sorrows that Little Nell must have endured.
The moral lesson from this character is obvious, that
gambling could destroy—not only the gambler’s own life—but also his family and
people he loves. And, the only way to stop is to stay away from the temptation.
Nell has done the best thing for her grandfather by bringing her grandfather
away from the temptation, no matter high the risk was.
aku gemessss banget sama grandpa si Nell...terjebak dalam masalah hanya karna dia menyimpulkan apa yg terbaik buat Nell - padahal itu bukan maunya Nell, hehehe..tapi suka kasian juga sih ya..apalagi belakangan jadi kurang sehat fisik dan mental...btw, CT ku nyusul ya mba =)
ReplyDeleteMenurutku grandpa si Nell menjustifikasi gambling-addict-nya dengan alasan "demi kebaikan Nell", aslinya dia memang tak mampu menghentikan addict-nya.
Deleteaaa.. aku yang baru baca karakternya aja udah sebeel.. gimana baca bukunya ya? *akankah bertahan? hihihi
ReplyDeleteKalau baca bukunya...terbelah antara sebel dan kasihan.
DeleteKayaknya buku ini emosional yah. Aku kalau baca/denger cerita tentang kakek-kakek yang agak menyimpang gt prilakunya sedih campur marah! ><
ReplyDeleteLumayan emosional sampai sejauh ini, Ndari, tapi sepertinya ending akan jauh lebih emosional lagi, tapi dengan alasan yang berbeda dari yang kamu bayangkan dari Character Thursday ini!
Deletebelum pernah baca, kisahnya tragis ya, macam pollyana atau lebih seperti anne of green gables ?
ReplyDeleteWah..jauh-jauh lebih dalam dan 'dark' daripada Pollyana atau Anne!
DeleteKok tu kakek nyebelin bener yah... Jadi kasian ngeliat sosok Nell... Seharusnya dengan usianya yang semakin tua gitu, dia bisa lebih bijaksana...
ReplyDeleteItulah, nampaknya penjudi berat memang susah bertobat ya..
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